Yep....Ukraine puts an exclamation point on all your points here .
Look, when the Ukrainian "refugees" begin arriving in Canada and the US, they'll be given food, clothing, shelter, jobs, education --all sorts of "benefits" that they deny refugees from black and brown countries. Unlike Mexicans and others at the Southern border, Ukrainian families will be kept intact and allowed to flourish. There are still thousands of black/brown refugees in internment (concentration) camps right this minute.
White supremacy is so engrained among "white" people that I no longer believe it is possible to "heal" them. They really do believe that they are "better than" everybody else on this earth.
Excellent essay, as always.